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Of The People, For The People, By The People

Originally Published In Iowabiz.com on July 2007

GettysburgPresident Abraham Lincoln had to be emotional about this speech.  This was more than a vested interest; he was leader and lives were lost under his leadership.  And here he was... standing on the very ground where a fierce battle had been fought.

I've always been fascinated by the Gettysburg Address.  Lincoln was reminding his audience that a mere "four score and seven years ago" they were fighting to become a nation.  Now they were a nation divided.  It was a nation that, in under a century, had lost sight of the goals and ambitions they had fought so hard to gain.  The sense of a unified vision was diminished.

In our projects, we don't lose lives.  We do, occasionally, lose livelihood.  We don't communicate our goals.  We lose sight of our vision.  We fight among ourselves.  We "turn over resources."  Projects are more than just line items on budgets.  Projects are more than the creation of a cool software driven plan.  Projects are more than a weekly meeting followed by a status report that nobody reads.  Projects are about people.  The dreams are the product OF THE PEOPLE.  The tasks for completed BY THE PEOPLE.  The benefits of the project are FOR THE PEOPLE.

When we lose sight of that fundamental truth... well... then the project probably isn't worth fighting for, is it?

On this Independence Day, have a safe and fun celebration with your friends and family... and remember those who have sacrificed for our freedom.

Happy 4th of July and Carpe Factum!

Wordless Wednesday: Floods of 2008

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Whew!

Runner_windedIt's finals week at Drake, which means one thing:  grades are due.  I just submitted the last set of grades today online, and handed back materials to the undergrads who bothered to come to class tonight.

Thursday morning bright and early, I leave for New England.  I'm going to be doing a little executive retreat facilitation, balanced with a whole lot of resting and relaxing and taking in all that I can in Massachusetts, New Hampshire (and possibly Maine and Vermont).

I hope you all don't mind, but I'm not going to think about blogging the next few days.  I've set up a few of my former Iowabiz posts to pop up each day for your reading pleasure.  For those of you who have followed Iowabiz faithfully, I apologize for the repeats.  For some of you, this will be new material, so enjoy it.

Next week, I will be speaking at the final Iowa Biz breakfast on Wednesday, May 21 at 7:30 at the NCMIC/PSIS building in Clive.  I'll be sharing some insights about project communication.  Admission is free, so please feel free to come and attend.

Have a great weekend everybody!  I know I will!

Frankenstein's Cubicle

Cubicle_dwellersDo you know who Bob Probst was?

Any guesses?

You may not like the answer.  Bob Probst is a "reluctant serial killer" of sorts.  Everyday, his creation sucks the souls and life out of countless professionals.  He was the Director of Research for Herman Miller, and (according to a research paper from my students) the man credited with creating the cubicle.  One of the ironies was that he originally called the prototype of the cubicle the "action office."  (OK, you in the 15th cubicle from the window, quit laughing so loudly.  You're disturbing the other 3,957 cubicle-dwellers on your floor.)  The other irony is that Bob spent the rest of his life regretting his creation, stating that he had never wanted the work environment to become hostile because of his creation.

As somebody who strives to seize the accomplishment, I just found this story interesting and had to share it.  For those of you sitting in cubicles right now, please try to find it in your hearts to forgive Bob.  He didn't mean it.  Really.

Y'all Come Back Now, Ya Hear?

Beverly_hillbilliesTwo blogs down, two to go.  OK, nothing like that, but two of the four blogs for whom I write either have ended or will end soon.  A while back, I mentioned I was going to be writing for processgeek.com for Troy Worman.  I exchanged emails with Troy last week about that website's demise.  It appears as though Iowabiz.com is coming to an end as well (change in strategy of our corporate sponsor).  Again, not surprising.  For Iowabiz, I'm actually going to be "recycling" many of my posts over here.  The readership on Iowabiz never really attained the same level as my readership, and (quite frankly) I wrote some pretty good stuff on project management over there, and I'd like to ensure it lives on somewhere.

In the process of "harvesting" my posts and migrating them from Iowabiz over to draft form in Carpe Factum for future publication, I started thinking about some of my own older work here on this site.  Posts I wrote months ago that were also "pretty good stuff" but never seemed to get much traction.  So I'm proposing a blogospheric recycling meme (besides, it's been a while since somebody did one of those annoying meme posts).

The question is this:  If I could select my top 5-10 posts which received little to no attention, what would they be?  So here are my top 10 never-been-commented-on-but-should-have blog posts (in no particular order):

  1. Naming Conventions Gone Awry
  2. Who Wrote That Autobiography Anyway?
  3. Some Assembly Required... Or Else!
  4. Is Your Rule Breaker Like Herbie or Christine?
  5. What's Your Happy Fun Ball?
  6. Multi-taskers: Take a Licking
  7. Sure, It's a Pile
  8. Friends, Romans, Countrymen:  Lend Me Your Rears
  9. Racing Against Phantoms
  10. Project Hokey-Pokey

So, I now tag Tammy Lenski, Chris Brown, Liz Strauss, Scot Herrick, and Phil Gerbyshak... what are your most under-appreciated posts?

Carpe Factum Can Dig It

Badge_041 I just received a very welcomed and wonderful email from GL Hoffman.  He has awarded Carpe Factum with the Dig Your Job award, for writing about positive issues that help other people dig their jobs.  This is a guy who understands workplace issues very well, since he deals with them on a regular basis.  And he's seen his share of negative issues, which is why he is spending his time rewarding the positive.

So thanks for the award and the badge, GL.  I promise to continue to help people seize the accomplishment!

Go Dogs Go

DrakebulldogsbasketballGo Dogs Go!  Handle the ball
Go Dogs Go, you will not fall
Go by post, by zone, from line
Go Dogs Go, you're doing fine

Go Dogs Go, 3-pointers reign
Emmenecker, Houston in the lane
The Valley will not be the same
When they taste Drake Bulldog fame

Go Dogs Go, Drake Bulldog rocks
Driven by Korver and Cox
Go Dogs Go, make Keno proud
Go Dogs Go, Des Moines cheers LOUD

Go Dogs Go, you're doing great
Final Four or Elite Eight
N-C-A-A, the "big dance"
Go Dogs Go, NOW is your chance!

Congratulations to the Drake Men's Basketball team on a stellar season, winning both the regular conference and the Missouri Valley Tournament.  Go Bulldogs!!

(Apologies to PD Eastman)

Consulting Anthropology

Noentry"No prophet is accepted in his own village." -Jesus (Luke 4:24)

I had an interesting discussion today with a friend of mine who is a whiz at software sales.  We were talking about our "home court" of Des Moines, Iowa.  When I first became an independent consultant, I marketed myself quite heavily here in the Des Moines area.  To no avail.  The market is saturated with cubicle-dwellers who call themselves consultants.  Alas, most of what is termed a local consultant around here is merely resource extender, a sort of "consulting Hamburger Helper" meant to make their existing resource budget go a little farther.  For true consulting, local companies bring in people from other cities.  (NOTE:  this assessment comes from many of the other consultants themselves; I just happen to concur with their observation.  So, no, I'm not labeling my colleagues.)

We all know the definition of a consultant:  anybody carrying a briefcase who comes from more than 100 miles away.  My one active consulting client right now is out of state, and I like it that way.  A lot of other service providers (software, marketing, financial services) have noticed the same thing.  When local companies did want my services, they wanted them for (ahem) free... and well, I'm not that cheap.  When one of the major "big box" employers in town was putting on a professional development day for their internal project managers, not only did they want me to come and speak (without a fee), but also they asked if I'd give away books.  I politely declined.  There was no follow-on business for a "deal" like that.  Plus, I'd consulted for this company enough to know what their bottom line looked like... they could have afforded my normal speaker fees.

But a really weird phenomenon has been happening since I've been acting like I'm no longer interested in pursuing consulting (or speaking or training) business here in Des Moines.  Local companies have suddenly been contacting me.  Inviting me to train.  To speak.  To consult.  Am I now considered the outsider?  Or is this relationship something like college dating?  Since I'm acting disinterested, have I suddenly becomeo irresistably desirable (at least as a consultant)?

My lunch comrade and I discussed others who had experienced similar situations.  We sat over our dessert and coffee, dissecting the local market like two anthropologists stumbling upon the ruins of an odd little tribe in the wilderness.

What do you think causes these kinds of relationships?  Is it just weird office politics gone awry?  Is it some kind of twisted mental game that companies play on consultants and service providers?  What do you think?

Cabin Fever... Ugh

This post is for all of my readers in the northern half of the US, where winter seems to have a death-grip on everybody's spirits with no sign of letting up.

(Those of you in the warmer climates can go and sunburn something.)

OK, I think we can all agree that cabin fever is setting in.  We're all trying to be nice, but even those with whom I've chatted have agreed that spirits are running low and tempers are running high.  Even my police buddies have mentioned that domestic calls have been on the increase recently.

Well, I've decided to focus on what I can do about my mindset rather than what is outside my control (although my proposal to The Almighty to see if He wants to outsource weather to a project manager has not received a denial yet, so there may be hope).  En lieu of being given the keys to the climate, I jumped on i-Tunes and downloaded some songs that make me think warm thoughts.

Here's my "heat my spirits" playlist:

Caliente

What would you add?

A New Semester

DrakelogoTonight begins a new semester at Drake.  While there are a few familiar faces from other classes I've taught, there will be many new students.  For all of the students, most of what I'm covering will be new content, even though I've trekked through it many times before.  So, before class starts, I'll be reminding myself to rekindle the same wide-eyed wonder I experienced the first time I encountered this material.  If I'm bored, my students most definitely will be bored.  Then nobody would have fun.  We can't have that, can we?

Besides the Leadership Class I taught last semester, I'm also teaching a class on Creativity for Business (one of my favorites), and an undergrad class on organizational behavior.  It sounds like an interesting mix.

Speaking of Drake, how about that Men's Basketball Team?  They're going sixteen wins straight, and just cracked the AP Top 25 Basketball Poll for the first time in over 30 years!

Today is a great day to be a Bulldog.  WOOF!

Just Add One

IZtimes_square_ballt's pretty simple.  Instead of writing 2007, you write 2008.  That's all there really is to transitioning to a new year, right?

Well, I can't think about moving forward with the new year until I look back and thank all the people whose comments helped make 2007 a "Carpe Factum" year to remember:

Liz Strauss, Bob Donaldson, Phil Gerbyshak, Robert Hruzek, Matt Owen, Brett Rogers, Delaney Kirk, Sandy Renshaw, Roger von Oech, Mike Wagner, Valeria Maltoni, Brett Trout, Terry Starbucker, Scot Herrick, Jake Parillo, Andy Brudtkuhl, Jack Rogers, Bob McIlree, Shaula Evans, Tim Putnam, Josh Nankivel, Tom Haskins, Dean Fuhrman, Sherry Borzo, Blaine Collins, Jane Greer, Beth Peck, Penelope Trunk, Troy Worman, Adam Steen, Lucia Mancuso, Ann Michael, Mike Sansone, Peter Stinson, Randy Ross, Drew McLellan, Dana Dennis, Joanna Young, Hunter Arnold, Lisa Gates, Jodee Bock, Claire Celsi, Mitch Matthews, Bob Ravenscroft, Dean Stantin, Rush Nigut, Rick Cockrum, Connie Reece, Tom Clifford, Wendy Piersall, Tony D. Clark, Chris Brown, Chris Cree, Kammie Kobyleski, SueAnn Denny, Shelley Davison, Dawud Miracle, G.L. Hoffman, Franke James, Sheila Scarborough, Janet Green, EM Sky, Dan Schwabel, Charlene Polansky, Don Hensley, April Groves, Derrick Sorles, Erik Potter, Crysta Wille, Kevin Brady, Art Dinkin, Ron McDaniel, Penina Finger, Lewis Green, Barbra Sundquist, Bob Glaza, Gavin Heaton, Rebecca Thorman, Linda Zdanowicz, Erika Andersen, Steven Davies, Michael Krigsman, Eric Peterson, Jeff Hutton, Meikah Delid, Rosa Say, Angela Maiers, Jen Chan, Mark Eversmall, Raven Young, Steve Farber, Bob Loch, Marti Lawrence, David Graves, Mik Watson, Kare Anderson, Jeff Wignall, Chris Bailey, Mike Rohde, Paul Williams, Erin Blaskie, Kevin Eikenberry, Jerimi Kopsa, Michael Adhi, Jeanne Dinnini, C.B. Whittemore, Anita Danger, Laurence-Helene, Pawel Brodzinski, Priscilla Palmer, Toby Bloomberg, Mike Dewitt, Anna Farmery, and Ricardo Bueno.

I can't thank each of you enough for stopping by, reading, and engaging me in conversation.  You've encouraged me, challenged me, and made me grow as a person and as a blogger.

(If I forgot anybody, my sincerest apologies.)

To all of the above, and to those who just stop by to read but have not engaged me in conversation yet, I thank you and wish you all the best in 2008.  My goal for this year is to "just add one":  there's always one more reader, one more comment, one more trackback, one more link that is just at the tipping point of blogging excellence.  My plan, therefore, is to "just add one."

Carpe Factum in 2008!

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One Bright Star

Kings_starHappy Holidays from your friends at Carpe Factum, Inc.

May your holiday accomplishments include friends, family, peace, tranquility, love, laughter, and hugs.

May your new year be guided by a star, leading you to your significant accomplishments yet to come.

Merry Christmas!

O! Blog

I know I just did a "blog list" post, but I wanted to thank Troy Worman for recognizing Carpe Factum as an Outstanding Blog (O! Blog).  He's compiled a nice sized list of amazing and relevant reading.  There are some repeats from my post the other day, but there are many, many new ones also.

We're getting an ice storm here in Central Iowa, so my local readers will have more than enough reading, as long as the power holds up.

Troy - big Carpe Factum Thank You coming at ya, buddy!

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  1. 100 Bloggers
  2. 37 Days
  3. 3i
  4. 43 Folders
  5. A Clear Eye
  6. A Daily Dose of Architecture
  7. The Agonist
  8. All Things Workplace
  9. All This Chittah Chattah
  10. Angela Maiers
  11. Antonella Pavese
  12. Arizona High Tech
  13. A Writer’s Words, An Editor’s Eye
  14. Badger Blogger
  15. Bailey WorkPlay
  16. Being Peter Kim
  17. Brett Trout
  18. Best of Mother Earth
  19. Beyond Madison Avenue
  20. Biz and Buzz
  21. Bizhack
  22. BizSolutions Plus
  23. Blog Business World
  24. Bloggers Showroom
  25. Blogging for Business
  26. Blogher
  27. Blog Till You Drop!
  28. Bob Sutton
  29. Brain Based Business
  30. Brains on Fire
  31. Brand Autopsy
  32. The Brand Builder Blog
  33. Branding and Marketing
  34. Branding Strategy
  35. Brand is Language
  36. BrandSizzle
  37. Brandsoul
  38. Bren Blog
  39. Business Evolutionist
  40. Business Management Life
  41. Business Pundit
  42. Business Services, Etc.
  43. Busy Mom
  44. Buzz Canuck
  45. Buzz Customer
  46. Buzzoodle
  47. Career Intensity
  48. Carpe Factum
  49. Casual Fridays
  50. Change Your Thoughts
  51. Chaos Scenario
  52. Cheezhead
  53. Chief Happiness Officer
  54. Chris Brogan
  55. Christine Kane
  56. Church of the Customer
  57. Circaspecting
  58. CK’s Blog
  59. Come Gather Round
  60. Community Guy
  61. Confident Writing
  62. Conversation Agent
  63. Converstations
  64. Cooking for Engineers
  65. Cool Hunting
  66. Core77
  67. Corporate Presenter
  68. Crayon Writer
  69. Creating a Better Life
  70. Creating Passionate Users
  71. Creative Think
  72. CRM Mastery
  73. Crossroads Dispatches
  74. Cube Rules
  75. Culture Kitchen
  76. Customers Are Always
  77. Customer Service Experience
  78. Customer Service Reader
  79. Customers Rock!
  80. Custserv
  81. Craig Harper
  82. Daily Fix
  83. Dawud Miracle
  84. Dave Olson
  85. David Airey
  86. David Maister
  87. David S Finch
  88. Design Your Writing Life
  89. Digital Common Sense
  90. Director Tom
  91. Diva Marketing
  92. Do You Q
  93. Duct Tape Marketing
  94. Empowerment 4 Life
  95. The Engaging Brand
  96. Essential Keystrokes
  97. Every Dot Connects
  98. Experience Architect
  99. Experience Curve
  100. Experience Matters
  101. Extreme Leadership
  102. Eyes on Living
  103. Feld Thoughts
  104. Flooring the Customer
  105. Fouroboros
  106. FutureLab
  107. Genuine Curiosity
  108. Glass Half Full
  109. The Good Life
  110. Great Circle
  111. Greg Verdino’s Marketing Blog
  112. Hee-Haw Marketing
  113. Hello, My Name is BLOG
  114. Holly’s Corner
  115. Homeless Family
  116. The Idea Dude
  117. I’d Rather be Blogging
  118. Influential Marketing
  119. Innovating to Win
  120. Inspiring & Empowering Lives
  121. Instigator Blog
  122. Jaffe Juice
  123. Jibber Jobber
  124. Joyful Jubilant Learning
  125. Joy of Six
  126. Kent Blumberg
  127. Kevin Eikenberry
  128. Learned on Women
  129. Life Beyond Code
  130. Lip-sticking
  131. Listics
  132. The Lives and Times
  133. Live Your Best Life
  134. Live Your Inspiration
  135. Living Light Bulbs
  136. Logical Emotions
  137. Logic + Emotion
  138. Make It Great!
  139. Making Life Work for You
  140. Management Craft
  141. Managing with Aloha
  142. The M.A.P. Maker
  143. The Marketing Excellence Blog
  144. Marketing Headhunter
  145. Marketing Hipster
  146. The Marketing Minute
  147. Marketing Nirvana
  148. Marketing Roadmaps
  149. Marketing Through the Clutter
  150. Mary Schmidt
  151. Masey
  152. The Media Age
  153. Micropersuasion
  154. Middle Zone Musings
  155. Miss604
  156. Moment on Money
  157. Monk at Work
  158. Monkey Bites
  159. Movie Marketing Madness
  160. Motivation on the Run
  161. My 2 Cents
  162. My Beautiful Chaos
  163. Naked Conversations
  164. Neat & Simple Living
  165. New Age 2020
  166. New Charm School
  167. Next Up
  168. No Man’s Blog
  169. The [Non] Billable Hour
  170. Note to CMO
  171. Office Politics
  172. Optimist Lab
  173. The Origin of Brands
  174. Own Your Brand
  175. Pardon My French
  176. Passion Meets Purpose
  177. Pause
  178. Peerless Professionals
  179. Perfectly Petersen
  180. Personal Branding
  181. The Podcast Network
  182. The Power of Choice
  183. Practical Leadership
  184. Presentation Zen
  185. Priscilla Palmer
  186. Productivity Goal
  187. Pro Hip-Hop
  188. Prosperity for You
  189. Purple Wren
  190. QAQnA
  191. Qlog
  192. Reveries
  193. Rex Blog
  194. Ririan Project
  195. Rohdesign
  196. Rothacker Reviews
  197. Scott H Young
  198. Search Engine Guide
  199. Servant of Chaos
  200. Service Untitled
  201. Seth’s Blog
  202. Shards of Consciousness
  203. Shotgun Marketing
  204. Simplenomics
  205. Simplicity
  206. Slacker Manager
  207. Slow Leadership
  208. Socially Adept
  209. Social Media Marketing Blog
  210. Spare Change
  211. Spirit in Gear
  212. Spooky Action
  213. Steve’s 2 Cents
  214. Strategic Design
  215. Strength-based Leadership
  216. StickyFigure
  217. Studentlinc
  218. Success Begins Today
  219. Success Creeations
  220. Success From the Nest
  221. Successful Blog
  222. Success Jolt
  223. Talk to Strangers
  224. Tammy Lenski
  225. Tell Ten Friends
  226. That Girl from Marketing
  227. Think Positive!
  228. This Girl’s Weblog
  229. Thoughts & Philosophies
  230. Tom Peters
  231. Trust Matters
  232. Verve Coaching
  233. Viral Garden
  234. Waiter Bell
  235. Wealth Building Guy
  236. What’s Next
  237. Writers Notes
  238. You Already Know this Stuff
  239. Zen Chill

Blog Fog

MegaphoneI love the blogosphere.  Anybody who's been reading these posts for a while should understand the passion with which I've approached these relationships, the writing, and the reading.  What's even more enjoyable is watching the relationships evolve and grow.  For example, after over a year of commenting back and forth and sending occasional emails, Bob McIlree and I finally were able to talk on the phone over the Thanksgiving weekend.  We have an alarming amount in common.  A funny thing happened in the middle of our conversation, though.  Bob tells this story really well, so I'll let you read it on his blog.  Suffice it to say, we were both laughing about unwittingly quoting another blogger back to himself.

In addition to my conversation with Bob, my buddy Phil posted 125 amazing blogs that help him make it great.  I bet they could help you make it great as well.  I've added some commentary behind some of the bloggers I've been able to get to know personally... but I'm looking forward to checking out all of them:

Yeah, I'm Thankful

It's the week of Thanksgiving, and this has been an amazing year.  There have been so many blessings and opportunities and trips and new relationships that I could not even list all of the wonderful things that have happened this year (besides, you've read most of them on my blog).  Sure, there have been bumps and detours, but they've wound up more adventure than annoyance.

20071101_mike_delaney_timWhat I'm so excited about this year are all of the friendships and relationships that have developed and fortified.  This month alone, I've been reminded of how lucky I am to know so many great people... but not just know them... to call them friends.  Some people say that social media will replace traditional relationships... to which I say, "PHOOEY!"

I'm thankful that I can meet Mike and Delaney for coffee whenever Delaney makes it back to town from Florida, and that our conversations seem to take off very naturally... and if left to our own devices, we could talk for hours.

I'm thankful that Drew and Janet will drop everything and come to my Drake class at the last second and share all of the joys of social media, and how the Age of Conversation affects all of our lives.

I'm thankful that Steve - while traveling to the opposite corner of the country and facing a tight publisher deadline - will conference call with the same Drake class and share his thoughts about changing the world.

HockeydudesI'm thankful that a guy like Adam would invite Brett, Art, Tom, Doug and me to a hockey game.  It was blogospheric male bonding at its best (even though the Iowa Stars got hammered 6-0).

I'm thankful that I have a great wife and two fun and beautiful daughters who put up with all of my ideas and dreams and let me follow my journey, even when I leave them scratching their heads.

I'm thankful that Office-Politics.com and Iowabiz.com let me come and play in their sandbox from time to time.

I'm thankful and Liz and Terry and Phil and Mike would create an opportunity for dozens of bloggers to forge new relationships and build on existing ones.

I'm thankful for all of you readers, who enjoy reading my ramblings and rantings day after day, month after month.

And you?  What/Whom are you thankful for?

Have a great Thanksgiving week!  Safe travels!

Nature Sure Can Carpe Factum

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A Question Of Ethics and Morality?

HouseflyPowerofniceSo, last night I'm busily preparing for my Drake leadership class this week... finalizing all of the exercises and slides and content.  And I was reviewing one more time the book we'll be discussing this week:  The Power of Nice by Linda Kaplan Thaler and Robin Koval.

Then it occurred.

Minutes of very loud buzzing from a fly... one single solitary winged insect intent on barnstorming my best efforts to stay focused and productive.  I swatted aimlessly at him with my hand on occasion, hoping to shoo him away.  He persisted.  Continually getting louder.

Finally... frustration... and then CRACK... dead aim.  Spot on.  Fly dead.  Killed by The Power of Nice.  My apologies to Robin and Linda; I'm sure that wasn't the intent of their book.

Somehow the phrase "kill 'em with kindness" most likely does not apply in this case.

Does this make me a bad person?

Top Ten Revised

It's about time.

It had been over 10 months since I had updated my top ten favorite posts.  It was almost as if I had been saying that none of my 2007 writing on this blog was worthwhile.  So, after some gentle persuasion from a few key stakeholders, the Favorite Posts list was revamped.

Keep in mind, these are my favorite posts.  If there is one that I ignored, let me know.  This list is dynamic.  It's always helpful to have a few "tried and  true" favorites in my back pocket to share with others.  However, having this list does not prevent me from creating and trying new things in my writing.  Who knows?  I may just create something for the next top 10 list.  Happy reading.

  1. Why Carpe Factum?  (This will probably always be the number 1 post... for obvious reasons)
  2. Case File 060805 (This one generated more traffic than any other single post)
  3. God's Little Chew Toy
  4. Satan's Chihuahua
  5. Accomplishment Apnea
  6. Conversion on the Road to "Damn!  Ask us!" (New addition to the top 10... sucker for word play)
  7. Milestones in Project Life
  8. My Blogging Metaphore (New... really encapsulates my perceptions about the blogosphere)
  9. Authorities Baffled by Conversation Serial Killer (New... I had fun with the photography on this)
  10. Things That Make You Go Boom (New... the experience to write this was totally worth it)

Of course, there are others that I like, and I'm sure there are some that you like as well (both of mine and of yours).  Enjoy the list... and I look forward to continuing to provide new material.

Most Post: How-To Books

How_to_books It's been a while since I've done my last MOST post.  I decided when I started these that I would only post one that I thought would be interesting and engaging.

Recently, I've been thinking about "How To" books... no, not writing one myself, mind you.  But I am curious about your opinions,,,

So answer one of the following questions:

  1. What has been the most helpful "how to" book you've ever read (include amazon or other web link)?
  2. What is your most coveted "how to" book that has yet to be written?

This could be fun... have a great weekend.

No Old Curmudgeons Here, Thank You

Tim_child"When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child.  When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me."  -Apostle Paul

Seems hard to believe another year has come and gone.  My daughter and I turn another year old today.  She turns three; I turn something-greater-than-three.  I really couldn't ask for a better birthday buddy, since we have similar personality traits and enjoy many of the same things in life.  And it was great to have almost our entire family around last night to help us celebrate our joint birthdays.  Although...

How do I put this without sounding ungrateful?  Something is bothering me.  She received a lot of cool toys.  I got an iPod.  She scored a make-believe doctor's kit (and insisted that we call her "Dr. Abby" the rest of the night).  I made off with some excellent gift certificates to Barnes & Noble and such.  Don't get me wrong... I think our family was very generous to both of us, and we're both very happy with what we received.  I think my question is... when did I grow up... and why did I let it happen?

The more I think about it, the more I believe that childhood should be a lifelong state.  There should always be wonder, imagination, and curiosity around every turn... even if we think we know the answers.  We should continue to get skinned knees and wear them like trophies.  We should check out that little forest at the end of the block because... well... you just never know....  We should revel in reading a swashbuckling adventure book under a tree on a lazy afternoon because every boy should know the finer art of swashbuckling.  We should ask why... again... and again... and again.  Maybe the answers the "adults" are giving are not complete enough f